โI came to you in weakness with great fear and trembling.โ (1 Corinthians 2:3)
We have an image of a courageous Apostle Paul boldly preaching about the Unknown God to the Greeks in Athens (Acts 17:16-33), or casting out a demon from a young fortune-telling girl triggering a riot which lead to his beating and landed him in prison (Acts 16:16-24), or causing a riot in Ephesus for preaching the Good News (Acts 19:23-41), or standing firm for his faith before King Agrippa (Acts 26). But thereโs another side to Paulโs ministryโhe came to Corinth in weakness, great fear, and trembling. Some people saw Paul as timid, โHis letters are weighty and forceful, but in person he is unimpressive and his speaking amounts to nothingโ (2 Cor. 10:10). Those who underestimated Paul as a messenger failed to realize the power of his message. Do you approach your major gift donor meetings with weakness, great fear, and trembling?
Weakness
Paul embraced weakness. In fact, he โdelighted in weaknessโ (2 Cor. 12:10) because he wanted Christโs power to rest on him. The Corinthians prided themselves in their wisdom (1 Cor. 3:18-20), but Paul chose the opposite approach. He did not use eloquence, human wisdom, or persuasive words. Rather, he wanted his message to demonstrate the Spiritโs power. If you approach your major donor meetings with pride and overconfidence, you might not get the response you desire. Donโt trust your fancy brochure, professional video, scripted presentation, or winsome personality. Humbly share your need and ask your donor to consider partnering with you. Then trust the Spirit to move in their heart.
Fear
Fear is a debilitating emotion. Some are vexed with acrophobia (fear of heights), arachnophobia (fear of spiders), ophidiophobia (fear of snakes) or the dreaded coulrophobia (fear of clowns). Some ministry leaders suffer from the fear of asking because they are afraid the donor will say no. They falsely believe if a donor declines to give, the donor is rejecting them. This perspective is rooted in pride. Itโs not about you. Itโs about your ministry and the people you serve. Boost up your courage and ask.
Trembling
Major donors might intimidate you and cause you to get tongue-tied. Paulโs reliance on the Spirit, kept him from shaking in his boots. His trembling turned to confidence as he proclaimed Godโs message through Godโs power (1 Cor. 2:4). Ezraโs enemies tried to intimidate him from completing Godโs mission but, โDespite their fear of the peoples around them, they built the altar on its foundation and sacrificed burnt offerings on it to the Lordโ (Ezra 3:3). Your best response to anxiety is to keep meeting with donors, keep sharing your ministry stories with confidence, and keep asking.
Think About This: Jerry Panas, the godfather of fundraising, advised, โAsking for a gift shouldn’t set your knees trembling. Asking isn’t selling. It isn’t razzle dazzle or persuading people to do something they don’t want to do. People want to invest in great causes. They want to feel they’re helping to change lives. Itโs your job to help them understand how their money can make things happen.โ
Response: Lord, please give me confidence to approach my ministry partners in humility and love. Help me ask boldly!







