ย โThe leech has two daughters.
ย ย ย ย โGive! Give!โ they cry.
โThere are three things that are never satisfied,
ย ย ย ย four that never say, โEnough!โ:
the grave, the barren womb,
ย ย ย ย land, which is never satisfied with water,
ย ย ย ย and fire, which never says, โEnough!โ
(Proverbs 30:15-16).
Do your donors feel this way about your ministry? Do they see you as a leech crying, โGive! Give!โ or a fire that never says, โEnough!โ Do they believe that the only time you communicate with them is to ask for money? Donors grow weary of the never-ending appeals from all sorts of nonprofit organizations who always want more. You can avoid donor fatigue with your ministry partners by adopting three simple attitudes:
1. Donโt be a โLiving Vampire.โ Billionaire Ted Leonsis attributes his wealth creation to his master networking skills. His counsel for others seeking to build their networks is, โDonโt be a โliving vampire.โ Before asking for a favor, Leonsis always seeks to add value to each relationship. He asks himself, โHow can I help this person get closer to their goal?โ His unselfish approach to business serves as great example for fundraisers.
How can you help your ministry partners get closer to their spiritual goals? Is your donor interested in evangelism? education? feeding the hungry? helping the poor? You add value by treating them as full partners in your life changing ministry. How are you blessing your donors before you ask for their support?
2. Connect authentically. Leonsisโ second tip for successful networking is to be real, not phony. Business associates seek authenticity, so do donors. A major donor commented to a president, โPlease donโt have John contact me again. I think heโs disingenuous.โ Evidently this donor rep said or did something the donor thought was insincere and hypocritical. Building trust is a key factor for successful fundraising, you canโt pretend. Donors desire openness and transparency and know when youโre hedging. Authentic people do not say things they do not mean or make promises they cannot keep.
3. Follow up with a thank-you note. Amazingly, Leonsisโ final tip is to follow up every networking meeting with a thank you note. If it works in business, it definitely works in fundraising. Most people donโt send follow-up correspondence, yet itโs a simple, powerful way to stand out in your donorโs mind. A thank you note is a strong remedy for donor fatigue because it adds a human touch to your ministry partner relationships. Email thank you notes are like a โmist that appears for a little while then vanishes.โ On the contrary, most people have difficulty throwing away a handwritten thank you card and often read it more than once.
Response: Father, forgive me for not adding value to my relationships with my ministry partners. Help me authentically reach out to them and build trust.
Think about this: If a billionaire takes time to write a personal thank you note to everyone he networks with, whatโs your excuse? Take time today to send a handwritten note to three donors.
Have a Spirit-led fundraising week,
Ron
Ron Haasย has served the Lord as a pastor, the vice president of advancement of a Bible college, a Christian foundation director, a board member and a fundraising consultant. Heโs authored two books:ย Ask for a Fishย โ Bold Faith-Based Fundraising andย Simply Shareย โ Bold, Grace-Based Giving. He regularly presents fundraising workshops at ministry conferences and has written fundraising articles forย At the Center magazineย andย Christian Leadership Allianceโs Outcomes magazine.




