Are donors throwing rocks at you? Donors often direct their frustration toward leadership when their favorite programs are cut, or trusted staff members are dismissed. David fled from King Saul and settled in Ziklag. One day while he was out raiding, Amalekites burned Ziklag to the ground and captured all the wives and children. When David and his men returned to find their homes and families gone, his men’s grief turned to rage against David. In their despair, they even talked about stoning him. David’s remarkable recovery reveals five essential strategies for regaining donor confidence.
Find Strength in the Lord
David responded by turning to the Lord for strength and wisdom. Trials are important moments of personal and organizational growth. Paul prayed for the Colossian believers to be, “strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience” (Col. 1:11). Do you need great endurance and patience today?
Drain the Pain
David’s men had legitimate reasons for their anger, but David wasn’t a detached leader—he grieved alongside them. Donors who are passionate about your ministry hold strong opinions about ministry direction and may question your strategic decisions, especially when staff cuts affect people they know personally. Allow them to express their feelings fully. Acknowledge their pain before moving toward solutions.
Seek Clear Direction
David inquired of the Lord (1 Sam. 30:8) and asked specific questions: “Should I pursue them? Will I overtake them?” Pray specific prayers and look for specific answers. Don’t simply present your strategic plan to God and ask him to bless it. Begin your planning process with prayer, seeking divine wisdom before charting your course.
Solve Problems
Winston Churchill observed, “Criticism may not be agreeable, but it is necessary. It fulfills the same function as pain in the human body. It calls attention to an unhealthy state of things.” David’s pain drove him to pursue God and address his crisis. God answered David’s prayer spectacularly: “David recovered everything the Amalekites had taken” (1 Sam. 30:18). Pain often precedes a breakthrough.
Share Your Blessings
David glorified the Lord for his protection and victory. When he returned to Ziklag, he shared plunder with the elders of Judah who were his friends. When God provides solutions to your fundraising challenges, be generous with your time and experience. Share your learnings with other ministry leaders so they can succeed as well. Maintain a kingdom mindset and celebrate others’ victories.
Think About This: The winter at Valley Forge was a period of immense suffering for the Continental Army. Soldiers faced starvation, disease, and inadequate clothing. Washington, under criticism and doubts about his leadership, turned to prayer for guidance and strength. The path through crisis requires divine dependence and obedience. David’s experience demonstrates that even when facing overwhelming opposition, leaders who anchor themselves in God’s strength can navigate through seemingly impossible circumstances and emerge stronger.
Response: Lord, please help me find my strength in you. Help me inquire of you to know the next steps for our ministry.
