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The image features a soft pink background with several layered paper-style hearts in various sizes on the left side. On the right, elegant white text reads โ€œRecognizing Donor Loyaltyโ€ with the reference โ€œ1 Kings 2:7โ€ below it. The overall design conveys warmth, gratitude, and appreciation.
Fundraising Verse of the Week

Recognizing Donor Loyalty

โ€œBut show kindness to the sons of Barzillai of Gilead and let them be among those who eat at your table. They stood by me when I fled from your brother Absalomโ€ (1 Kings 2:7).

David was experiencing the lowest moment of his life. His son, Absalom, rebelled forcing David and his household to escape across the Jordan River. They arrived at the little village of Mahanaim exhausted, hungry, and thirsty. There, a wealthy man named Barzillai the Gileadite appeared with many gifts: wheat, barley, flour, roasted grain, honey, and cheese from cows’ milk (see 2 Sam. 17: 27-29). His generosity and Davidโ€™s response teach us four important lessons about deepening our donor relationships.

Generosity
Perhaps Barzillai had met David previously or perhaps he just knew his reputation. Either way he developed a deep loyalty for David which resulted in rich generosity. A major donor was asked if he would support a campaign and he responded, โ€œI donโ€™t know much about this project, but Iโ€™ve known the president for years and trust his judgment. My wife and I would consider a gift of $500,000.โ€ Generosity springs up from a loyal heart. Barzillaiโ€™s gifts gave David strength to fight another day.

Humility
On Davidโ€™s return to Jerusalem, he didnโ€™t forget who helped him win the battle and invited Barzillai to come live in the palace. Barzillai graciously declined the invitation, โ€œHow many more years will I live, that I should go up to Jerusalem with the king? I am now eighty years old. Can I tell the difference between what is enjoyable and what is not? Can your servant taste what he eats and drinks? Can I still hear the voices of male and female singers? Why should your servant be an added burden to my lord the king?โ€ (2 Sam. 19: 34-35). Some donors donโ€™t want recognition, but you should offer anyway.

Sacrifice
Barzillai then made an unusual request and asked David to take his servant, Kimham, to the palace instead of him. David was pleased to respond, โ€œanything you desire from me I will do for youโ€ (2 Sam. 19:38). One important way to honor your major donors for their loyalty is to listen to their ideas and implement them whenever you can. If they ask for a favor, respond with the generosity they have shown to you. This was true friendship. โ€œThe king kissed Barzillai and bid him farewell, and Barzillai returned to his homeโ€ (2 Sam. 19:39).

Legacy
Every nonprofit wants to know how to reach the next generation of donors. Typically, grandparents and parents have institutional loyalty, but children and grandchildren lose interest. One key way to capture the interest of the next generation is to honor the memory of the previous generation. David told Solomon to honor the descendants of Barzillai because he stood by him when times were tough (see 1 Kings 2:7).

Think About This: Famed L. A. Dodgersโ€™ coach Tommy Lasorda said, โ€œYou give loyalty, you’ll get it back. You give love, you’ll get it back.โ€ Sounds like the principle of โ€œsowing and reaping.โ€

Response: Father, I praise you for our faithful donors who have stood by us in good times and bad times. Help me honor them for their loyalty.

Fundraising Verse of the Week

Uncommon Gratefulness

โ€œOne of them, when he saw he was healed, came back, praising God in a loud voice. He threw himself at Jesusโ€™ feet and thanked himโ€”and he was a Samaritan. Jesus asked, โ€œWere not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine?โ€ (Luke 17:15-17).

Hopefully, your mom taught you to always say, โ€œPleaseโ€ and โ€œThank You.โ€ It seems insignificant, but Jesus noted that a spirit of thankfulness is rare. All ten lepers asked Jesus to heal them and he restored each one to full health. Only one stopped in his tracks, came back to praise God, and personally thanked Jesus for his miraculous healing. Jesus questioned, โ€œWhere are the other nine?โ€ They just walked away enjoying their new gift of life.

Non-profits are constantly asking for gifts, but how many genuinely express thanks to their donors? Itโ€™s easy just to move on and focus on todayโ€™s challenges, but organizations that neglect to say, โ€œthank you,โ€ risk more than leprosy. Learn these three important lessons:

Thankfulness has an expiration date. Milk cartons have a โ€œbest when used byโ€ date for a reason. โ€œThank-yousโ€ also have a short shelf life. The grateful Samaritan immediately praised God and thanked Jesus for his wonderful gift. How well your organization shows appreciation to donors determines whether your donor cultivation cycle keeps moving forward or grinds to a halt. Maybe youโ€™ve heard this fundraising proverb: โ€œThank the donor seven times before asking for another gift.โ€ Send a handwritten note, a small gift of appreciation, or a brief video from someone who benefited from the gift.

Thankfulness sets you apart from the crowd. Research has shown that first-time donors who receive a personal thank-you call within 48 hours are four times more likely to give again. Bloomerang, a fundraising software company, made a $5 donation to fifty non-profits to test their acknowledgment processes. Perhaps $5 didnโ€™t meet their giving threshold, but none of the organizations called to say, โ€œThank You.โ€ In this age of annoying telemarketing calls during supper, many organizations are afraid to call donorsโ€”but a thank you call will set your ministry apart from the rest.

Thankfulness cultivates deeper relationships. When this former leper turned back to show his appreciation, he received an even greater gift from Jesus, โ€œYour faith has made you wellโ€ (Luke 17:19). Your thankfulness deepens your relationship to God because you offer to him a sacrifice of praise for prompting the gift (Hebrews 13:15). Your gratitude also deepens your relationship with your donors because they feel that their generosity made an eternal difference. Your ministry partners should never feel that their gifts are expected, taken for granted, overlooked, or unappreciated.

Response: Father, I am so grateful for our ministry partners who sacrificially give to support our ministry. Forgive me for taking them for granted by not thanking them appropriately.

Think about this: The hour you spend each week thanking donors could be the best hour of your week!

Have a Spirit-led fundraising week,

Ron


Ron Haasย has served the Lord as a pastor, the vice president of advancement of a Bible college, a Christian foundation director, a board member and a fundraising consultant. Heโ€™s authored two books:ย Ask for a Fishย โ€“ Bold Faith-Based Fundraising andย Simply Shareย โ€“ Bold, Grace-Based Giving. He regularly presents fundraising workshops at ministry conferences and has written fundraising articles forย At the Center magazineย andย Christian Leadership Allianceโ€™s Outcomes magazine.

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