Abraham gave his servant detailed instructions about finding bride for Isaac. He was not to look among the daughters of the Canaanites but travel back to his homeland and search among his relatives (see Genesis 24:1-4). Abrahamโs servant prayed that God would reveal the right young woman by prompting her to give him a drink and water his camels. God answered immediately in an incredible way.
Rebeccaโs over and above response teaches us four important truths about donor endurance. Sometimes we are reluctant to ask a major donor repeatedly for support for fear they will tire of us and stop giving altogether. Donor fatigue seems real, but is it?
Start SmallAbrahamโs servant prayed specifically that the woman would give him a drink and offer to water his camels (Genesis 24:14). He didnโt overwhelm her with a big ask, but wisely started small, โPlease give me a little drink from your jar.โ Most million-dollar gifts start with a small entry gift. Donโt shock your key prospects with a huge first gift. Ask for a gift that makes it easy for them to say โyes.โ
Notice EnthusiasmWatering camels is a huge job. A thirsty camel can drink more than 30 gallons of water in 15 minutes. If Abrahamโs servant had an entourage with ten camels, we can understand why Rebecca ran so quickly back and forth from the well. Rebeccaโs eager response wasnโt just because she had a good work ethic. Her generosity was a sign of Godโs answer. God can bring special donors to you who have the gift of giving enthusiastically.
Deepen Your RelationshipWhen Rebecca finished her task, Abrahamโs servant gave her a gold nose ring and two gold bracelets. It wasnโt just a generous tip for doing a great job, it was a proposal for marriage to Isaac. Develop a lifelong relationship with your key ministry partners. As your friendship deepens over the years, so will their financial commitment to your success. God rewards those who are generous by giving them more opportunities. โYou will be enriched in every way so that you can be generous on every occasionโ (2 Cor. 9:11).
Response: Father, lead me to donors you have selected to partner with our ministry. Grant them the energy and resources to give generously until the job is finished.
Think About This: Jesus promised โGive, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lapโ (Luke 6:38). That doesnโt sound like donor fatigue. Donโt view generous donors as a well that could run dry. See them as rivers of living water that God abundantly supplies to refresh others.
Have a Spirit-led fundraising week,
Ron
Ron Haasย has served the Lord as a pastor, the vice
president of advancement of a Bible college, a Christian foundation director, a board member and a fundraising consultant. Heโs authored two books:ย Ask for a Fishย โ Bold Faith-Based Fundraising andย Simply Shareย โ Bold, Grace-Based Giving. He regularly presents fundraising workshops at ministry conferences and has written fundraising articles forย At the Center magazineย andย Christian Leadership Allianceโs Outcomes magazine.



